I know this is wrong but I can’t help it. Every time my husband wants to take on more responsibility with our daughter I deflect it. It’s not that I don’t want the help; it’s just that I can’t stand the amount of extra work he creates in the process. If he makes her lunch I don’t see the heart shaped PB&J, I only see the jelly stained walls and sink filled with unwashed dishes. If they go to the park I know he won’t bring extra clothes and wipes, so what’s the point of relaxing with a magazine when I know any minute I’m going to get the s.o.s. call. When he gives her a bath it’s wet towels for days. Why can’t he just let me handle it? Then I watch my daughter’s glee as she splashes Daddy in the face, and I realize sometimes a girl just wants her Daddy. That being said, sometimes a Mom just wants her girls Daddy to use one dish, one towel, and pack the freakin wipes!