I’m trying to organize a surprise party for my sister, Heather’s, birthday and I’m at a complete loss. Everyone I knew before I moved back into town was her married friends. It was all very couple oriented events and dinners. Now that she’s newly single I don’t want to tick her off any more than the actual surprise of the party already will. If she shows up and it’s a bunch of married couples she’ll freak, if it’s a bunch of single gals she’ll freak’ and if it’s just our family she’ll freak and throw something at me. I really want to make it a special day, but when it comes to my sister the word special is a loaded word. I think I’ll play it safe and Kim and I will take her to the bar across from the fire station. Nothing says happy birthday better than a cold drinks and hot guys. That’s true whether you’re married or single!